An Airport Reunion

I was struck by divinity last week.  I was working on an advertisement to post, looking for families with loved ones who live far away, or are away in the military, and will be coming home soon, so I can add those touching airport reunion sessions to my portfolio, and [DING] -facebook notification- I was tagged in a post of someone looking for exactly that!

This local gal was searching for a photographer to donate time to capture a reunion of her friend picking her kids up from the airport. This mom's story of courage and strength is AMAZING. (I didn't even ask for the whole story until afterwards, because I was afraid to be a blubbering baby! ....which I was anyways... big surprise there huh?)

I'll give you a little blurb of a background:  Muthoni, a Kenyan native, had three beautiful kiddos, Rosa (16), Biko (10), and Martin (6).  Her and her youngest left the states to go back to Kenya to help her mother through health problems, and they became financially stranded. After 3.5 years of many twist, turns, and struggles of trying to return and see her two oldest kids, the family was finally reunited, and I was so blessed to have been able to witness it.

As I pulled into the parking lot, the gorgeous sun setting sky had me so excited to capture more beauty inside the airport.

The plane landed moments after we arrived. 

Muthoni and Martin waited anxiously for passengers to start coming out.

Martin's silliness kept everyone entertained!

They moved over to the gate opening once the other passengers started pouring out.  Seconds moved like hours as people passed us.

 One sweet passenger stopped on her way out to say she had visited

with her daughter on the flight. It was so touching, and so reassuring

that her kids would soon come walking down that hall.

Jen was the person who originally reached out to me. 

She stood as a pillar of strength with her friend.

Muthoni's entire demeanor shifted

and I knew that she got a glimpse of her babies!

They beamed on their way down that hallway.

They embraced (and I cried)

They only let go to trade places and hug some more

Rosa showed that she gets her strength from her

mother as she wipes away her tears.

Biko shares the silliness trait, as him and his brother Martin play in the lobby.

They went to the service desk to make it official. Bracelets off, papers signed

Finally together again

It was such a humbling experience to stand with a woman so full of strength.  I can't imagine missing my babies for that long.  I pray that they're able to enjoy the time that the have together now, and I thank them for asking me to be a part of such a special occasion.

II Timothy 4:17a "But the Lord stood at my side and gave me strength"

Thoughts From A Toddler Bed

Little O recently moved from his crib in our room to a “big boy bed” (toddler mattress on the floor with pool noodles for makeshift rollover speed bumps) in his brother’s room, and he’s still adjusting to the change, so our nights have been long and snuggly. As I was tucking Little O in tonight (for the 3^rd time), I took in all of his sweetness by the red light of big brother’s lava lamp.  Here’s some of my thoughts while laying with him:

Are his eyes open or closed?.....they’re open….no…..no I think I would see him blink…..they must be closed. I’ll just wave my hand in front of him and see if theyyyep they’re open. Start over

Wow his cheeks are CHUBBY……. that’s why I can’t see his eyes…. they’re hiding in the shadows…… he won’t outgrow those….… those are my cheeks…… he’ll see those in his peripheral vision for the rest of his life……sweet little chipmunk

I can’t wait for coffee in the morning

I’ll sing a little lullaby, that always works for Big A…… “Down in the valley, in the valley so” “NO!”  Little O, you stinker! Don’t laugh don’t laugh…. this little turkey always stops my lullabies… well maybe that means he’ll be a singer like his daddy since he knows that I’m no good

OUCH! Either I’m getting older or floors are getting harder

 

Aww his toes are probably cold, I’ll cover them up……. wait…. this can’t be……. Did his blanky shrink? Why won’t it cover all of my baby at the same time? How is Little O not so little anymore? My baby grew over night? But but but….. [sobs quietly]…..

He’s sound asleep… I’ll just tip toe out of here and “CREEEEEEEEEEEEEAK” Stupid #%@$% door! Add WD40 to shopping list..... “Mamaaaaaaa!?” Oh Little O, that’s the saddest voice ever….. no, baby, I wasn’t going to bed leaving you all alone in your bed, I’m coming back to snuggle right now <3

That’s a pretty typical night for this mama lately, and as tired as I am, I’m loving every minute of it. My biggest hope for tonight’s blog is that my little anecdote reminds you to be present <3

“Realize deeply that the

present moment

is all you ever have

                            -Eckhart Tolle

Lifestyle Photography - Best in the Mess

With two cute little tornadoes in my house, Big A and Little O, if I go pee alone, I GUARANTEE that the living room (that I just picked up 2 seconds ago) will look like a toy store war zone.  I’m sure every parent can relate!  I know that’s what holds a lot of you back from wanting an in-home lifestyle session, but I’m here to tell you IT’S OK!

I’ve done a session of Little O, bathing in the sink, but what you can’t see, is that the other ½ of the sink was full, and the rest of the dishes that stuck out were sitting on the stove! The extra scrubbers, plastic dish soap bottle, dish drying rack? I tossed those on the kitchen island.  Lifestyle photography is meant to freeze time the way it should be remembered, so distractions are moved to the side, and the sweet moment is captured <3

Another great story is this hot mess below.  Big A was helping me practice a new camera technique with his monster trucks. The mess they had made in the living room was comparable to a minefield I’d assume.  I took these photos seconds apart.  All the chaos, all around, and if you really take a step closer, you see the beauty right there, in everyday life <3

“You will never have this day with your children again. Tomorrow they will be a little bigger than they are today. This day is a gift. Breathe and notice. Smell and touch them; study their faces and little feet and pay attention. Relish the charms of the present. Enjoy today mama. It will be over before you know it.” -Jen Hatmaker

Puppy and Dino - Lifestyle Photography

     I’ve touched on the subject of photography before, but I haven’t really dived into lifestyle photography in a post yet, so I thought I’d share one of my favorite sessions to date, plus I want to introduce you to my sweet babies <3 

     Big A is three years old. He has the sweetest soul, gentlest heart, and kindest spirit <3 He often says things like “Dad’s in trouble tuh-day because I miss him” <3 He starts preschool and soccer next month, he’s going to be in his uncles wedding, and he just moved up to a big boy bed! (I think this mama is freaking out about growing up more than he is!)

Also, meet Dino. This is A’s BEST FRIEND. He came into his life before A was even actually here! A friend got him Dino at his baby shower, and the two have been inseparable since <3

  Little O is my wild man, my tornado, my chubby little love bug <3 This one year old will fly in, steal your heart, and run away with it giggling! He loves a good adventure (like climbing to the top of Mt Moms-Dining-Room-Table), likes to live dangerously (like diving off of A’s new big boy bed), and loves to love (he’s quite the smoocher <3)

    O’s favorite snuggle buddy right now is Puppy. Puppy was one of A’s old babies who didn’t get enough love until O came along.  Now Puppy is always covered in slimy kisses, and billowing in the wind and O runs around flying him by the paw.

     Having these precious photos, these sweet moments frozen in time, is so special.  One day Dino and Puppy will be on a dusty shelf while the boys are at school, but the cuddles, the adventures, they’re preserved forever <3

Life. Is. Beautiful.

  I was at an awesome photography workshop a couple days ago. I learned a TON of technical information. I learned new terms, new techniques, new ways to look at things. It was amazing to be a sponge and just absorb all of that knowledge. I could talk for days and dive deeper into all the “stuff” I learned, but I took away more from that workshop than learning “stuff”. Being with “your people,” standing in a group of people “like you,” talking about a passion that you share and hearing how everyone got started, you wouldn't believe how amazing it was.

We started with typical awkward intros “Hiiiii Malloryyyy!” like it was an AA meeting and telling everyone why we started photography. Some people dug deep and poured out their souls, some people skipped details (like my friend who didn’t happen to mention that part of what really drove her to love photography was losing all of her precious family photos in a house fire), and some people (like me) said, “I don't know, I just kinda like it. I just kinda started because it looked fun” and it’s been on my mind ever since.  I don’t just “kinda” like it.

I’m passionate. I love what I’m doing. It’s not a hobby.
I. Am. A. Photographer.

   That last sentence ^ That title ^ “Photographer” ^ Since I’ve started photography I’ve been wishing that there’s a test of some sort that you have to pass to be able to call yourself that, some sort of real official certificate, a rite of passage. Well, there sorta is…. It’s knowing your own worth. I had to find my worth within myself, believe in my work, and claim my value.  The guy that led the workshop did a little demonstration on self-worth, showing us that even a muddy, wadded up $20 bill was still worth $20.  I’m a fresh 5 months into the photography business, so I feel like a $20 hot off the press. There are times that I’m so new, I’ll get stuck to another bill and overlooked, but as I get myself out there, passed around, people will see my potential. I know nothing can prepare me for the days that I get trampled on, drug through the mud, but now I know that I’ll still be that same $20 bill. I know my worth.

   I’ve worked hard and studied hard to learn what I know. I’m not claiming to know everything. Hell. I’m just starting to learn (and I’m so excited that photography is limitless so I never have to stop learning), but working side by side with some (flipping amazing omg-I-can’t-believe-I’m-working-next-to-these-people) photographers, knowing what they were talking about, seeing what they were seeing, and feeling like I belonged there, was SO powerful to me. I can’t thank them enough for helping me open up my eyes.

   I had mentioned that my inspiration for starting photography was weighing on my mind after not having a clear answer. I found it. I know why I love photography. More specifically, I have found why I fell in love with lifestyle photography, why I want to document the way I see life. Life Is Beautiful. As simple as that. Maybe I live my life wearing rose tinted glasses, but I always notice something beautiful everywhere I look.  Those beautiful moments are often overlooked in everyday chaos. People miss these moments and they’re gone. They’re in the past. I want to bring that beauty to the now. I want my photos to take away my clients breath. I want my clients to see my photos and want to cling to that moment, and Be. Present.  I want to show my clients that their Life. Is. Beautiful.

Ecclesiastes 3:11a “He has made everything beautiful in its time”

Rose Tinted Glasses

“Rose tinted glasses? So cliché. Oh boy. This blogger is weird. Abort. Abort….wait… she’s kinda funny maybe I’ll read more…”

I’m so glad you stayed to get to know me! I know, I know, my blog title is sooooo cliché, but so is saying “so cliché” so who is the real loser here?  ;)

I grew up in a small town with 2 brothers, 4 step sisters, 4 parents, and now I have a husband and 2 kids of my own.  In every family, there’s always that crazy one, the weird one, …….the sunshiney one, if you will…. Well folks, you’re talking to her.

I tend to look for the beauty in life everywhere I look, which is why I started lifestyle photography, capturing those little real life moments. I always look for the beauty inside everyone too. I was always the friend that people came to for advice, and I think it’s because of my outlook. I am good at helping people see from a different perspective (a happier one). I love being that person <3

My school report cards always called me “bubbly" “effervescent” “cookoo” (just kidding on that last one), and I even won an award in Jr High for being a humanitarian. Being a happy person is just who I am. It’s like I’m just full of this energy (mostly espresso and diet mt dew, let’s be real) and joy and brightness. It’s helped me through all of the ups and downs I’ve encountered along the way. I want to share that with you. Happiness is addictive, joy is contagious, and YOU can wear rose tinted glasses too!